Among the myriad differences between men and women that can make a marriage challenging, is the very difference in perspective between husbands and wives on marriage itself. Author Mark Gungor claims that women tend to view marriage as something dynamic, whereas men look at marriage as a safety zone, where they can relax and recuperate. Men get married thinking that everything is good and so tend not to view the marriage as something that needs to be worked on, while women may tend to get married thinking that everything is good, but could be better with effort.
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